Resonance, Reality, and Reflection

“This is vibrating like Hell, we may fall off anytime”, I said with terror in my bewildered eyes.

“Yeah, if it matches our resonant frequency,” said Abhinav with a cool callous demeanor.

This idea stemmed from a shaky start, we both were stuck at a working platform vibrating at frequencies faster than our heartbeat. The idea that how we are instantly attracted to some people and hope others simply vanish in front of our eyes is worth examining. Is there any meaningful relationship between connection and frequencies?

I wish there was a mathematical equation that defined who will get connected to whom. We live in a non-Hogwartian world and we know most folks we meet on the road fall out of frequency with us. Yet, there are few that instantly get connected. Can we increase the connection frequency or simply rule out out-of-zone personalities? Can we expand our personality so that we can connect with more than a few? These questions always put me in a perpetual dilemma about what is a true connection. Is getting a resonant frequency just coincidental or can this be achieved by directional effort?

Yet, how can we connect with everyone with the same frequency? There are over 7 billion distinct maniacs unlike us, floating in this vast expanse of delusion and desire. I wish, I can create an App, that instantly tells your level of connection with a fellow being. Yet, in this seemingly ordered sane world, we find ourselves lost in this battle of finding perfect frequency people(pdf).

I look outside and see a man teaching morse code to a dog. Maybe, that`s an interesting man I can connect with or maybe I am going out of range in terms of my sane frequency. I walk further and see a girl taking a short break from her cycling with a smile on her face rejoicing the moment with her fellow sapiens about how playing with children was refreshing. Another case of interesting being that I still can`t find a relevant frequency to connect.

I look further and find a crazy man mumbling to himself, I look no further. I sit down in a nearby park and scribble down my dumb idea of connecting people with equations. I look for an equation that can be applied to everyone from The king to a beggar from the sane to insane from boring to super-boring. After hours of brainstorming and frustration, came my eureka moment. That golden equation connects people with numbers. Hold your breath, vodka or ego, or whatever you are clutching onto. Check if you have corona, laugh at your neighbor, and then scroll down the page.

The mighty equation that will shake this world:

Frequency of connect(Fc) =comfortable silence in minutes*mutual love and hatred*same sense of humor*curiosity in related subjects * honesty in conversation.*pure randomness

Out of 7 tricky terms, honesty in conversation is the most important one. Look for this sign, whenever you are finding your resonance. If you find this, then look for the curiosity part then go for a sense of humor then…I hope you get it. The weightage of this mighty equation increases with each term. Except for the last one: pure randomness-It just happens.

Good luck with finding perfect resonant matches in your life. Until then keep exploring muggles, maniacs, and jugheads, and do not forget to apply the Frequency of Connect equation next time, you say ‘Hi’ to someone.